I've been knee deep in reading about teenage sex for the past week and it has been far more grueling than I thought it would be. It's not that the books have bad - far from it - but the situations and plots have been so annoying for me (this might be partly due to reading so many at once) and I'm discovering I have no patience for silly young girls. The thing is, sex and love (or sex without love) is when most of us, particular the female kind of us, act the stupidist. And since by definition teenagers aren't always acting in the most mature manner possible (shocking, I know), combine that age group with the added pressures of sex and all the nastiness of the high school rumor mill and what you get are books that are utterly and completely and more than any other genre really all about being young and stupid.
And I'm so glad to be out of that part of my life - can you blame me for not wanting to relive any of it, even vicariously?
The reason I'm doing a column on this subject is that several books caught my eye in the past couple of months and they all revolved around the theme of teenagers and sex. This was main point of the books - not another layer in a coming of age story (say like King Dork), and I remembered when Judy Blume's Forever was the most important book in my life so I thought I would check out what the 21st century versions of the story were like. So far, I've read Angel's Choice, Good Girls and Story of a Girl and just started Pop. While I've come to my own conclusions about these books and their value to a teen girl audience, I've been interested to see them reviewed elsewhere by other adult reviewers. For example, here's TadMack on Angel:
This was a difficult book to enjoy. I found the language and dialogue reasonably believable, and the descriptions and sense of place well-crafted, but I was unable to fully enter into the world of the characters, as some of their actions and reactions to things seemed highly unlikely. This book appears very much to be a novel aimed at educating young adult women on what not to do with boys and pregnancy, and readers may likely come away feeling that they have been instructed instead of entertained.
Sara was bothered by how Angel became pregnant (in the text she was major drunk and remembers very little - the boy did pull a condom out of his pocket but he must not have used it). She also thinks the author is sending a message: Baratz-Logsted seems to be trying to scare teenagers out of having sex -- and while I don't necessarily think they should be -- I do think that they should be given correct facts and information, so that they can make a logical choice, rather than just being scared.
See it's funny - when I was thinking like an adult, Angel really annoyed me. I couldn't figure out how she got pregnant either and her constant wondering about what to do and her comment that she was basically the poster child for "what not to do" to teenagers everywhere just seemed like a cliche. Then - and I should have been thinking this way from the beginning - I remembered the girls who did get pregnant when I was in junior high and high school and how some of them were freaked out and some just stoic. And I remembered how everyone stared - even the girls who friends of mine, we still stared.
And I remember not caring, not really for a minute, just how they got pregnant. They just were - and that was the whole story.
I think Angel's Choice is a perfect example of a teen book that works on a whole different level for a teen audience then it does for adults. That does not mean that Sara or TadMack couldn't legitimately dislike the book - that's fine and we all have books that don't work for us. But for me, this book was okay when I read it thinking like a 38 year old and effective on a whole different level when I tried to think like a 15 year old. Those girls will like it, I'm sure. And as to whether they will think they're being preached to, well as I recall we were constantly being preached to about good girls vs bad girls (and Laura Ruby's Good Girls shows how this has not changed); Angel's Choice will be a cakewalk for today's teens - they will read it to vicariously (hopefully) see what it's like to get caught and in all likelihood care for more about Angel's feelings then any reviewer's concerns about a subversive message hidden in the text.








November 21
2006
11:38 AM
I believe there's a saying among writers, "Never complain, never explain." :) Thanks for reading my book and enjoying it to the extent you did.