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....and why I don't think Guys Lit Wire would accept a nomination for Most Altruistic in the future.

I probably should have thought about this more in the past couple of weeks but honestly, I was very preoccupied with my grandfathers' death and travel arrangements, etc. There was plenty of family drama to go around without concerning myself with the blogosphere. But I can't shake that this notion of awarding someone for doing the right thing is just wrong. It makes me uncomfortable, for example, to have the books for boys in LA County jails competing against underprivileged girls in Detroit. We didn't do this for an award - none of us do. I love the increased readership for the blog from being shortlisted, but getting a prize for helping kids in trouble?

It just seems wrong.

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Colleen,

My condolences.

I hear you. I understand others wanting to acknowledge what we do. Maybe this award should be done by committee only and not a popular vote.

At any rate, none of do what we do to be recognized. That's why others take it upon themselves to say thank you. I've learned to accept praise and promptly go back about the business of getting the work done.

I just hate the notion of competing against you for this. And I also don't like the idea that people can vote for this category and award in it and feel better themselves for recognizing it. What I want is for them to contribute to our causes and that would be the best award possible.

Hopefully more know about what we're trying to do now though - and that is very very good.

Now that's what I'm talking about. I confess when I tell people what I do and they say, "Good luck" I have to stop myself from wincing. I don't need luck. I need volunteers, donations and support. I want folks to say they're willing or doing good somewhere else so we are meeting more needs.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keep your damn "good luck"/"good job"/atta girls and just HELP US.

Shouldn't be so hard to understand that, but we both know it is.

Thank you for this post!!! I have been feeling extremely uncomfortable about this particular category and while I might take some grief for how I'm going to handle it, this post was the motivation so hopefully a few others feel the same way!

I'm glad you didn't take it the wrong way Amy and I appreciate your thoughts on the subject.

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